eva01beserk said:
Thouse points of view have been out for a long time, not becaue of trump. Its not "misogynistic". Like I said before, both men and women fall victims to theese horrible divorce setlements. It just it happens more to men cuz most often the men are the primary earners. And it really gets bad when they are the sole earners. But again, women fall victim to it as well, just not as often so you dont really have them making an uproar over it like men do. The problem is not women like you seem to think we are blaming, its the marriege. The laws have to be changed. Its way to harmfull to the one with the money, both men and women. Like you said, when both have money or are on equal terms, this is never an issue. They take what they both know its theirs and split. the law is making it dificult to be with someone uness they are your economic equal, wich should not be something to messure a future relationships. Not somthing to take into account who you want children with. Not something to take into account of who you can fall in love with. Right now I want to have a loving relationship and all that, and the only way to do so is by aavoiding marriage and even living together. Not because of women, but because of the law is fucked up, and even if I find a great women, I could be fooled by a camelion later, could be a gold digger, I could do something to piss her off and she holds a grudge later, I can think shes perfect at first and we just see the reality once living toghether, our lives could just takes down diferent paths and e have to split while still in love. No matter how good the relationship was, how much in love, the good intentions, being deceived r what ever, if your not economically equal, you will get f**ked. Happens to both men and women, get over it. Its the laws fault. |
Oh its Trump alright, his presidency has enbolden those that would stay silent to start speaking about woman having too much power in todays age.
I don't understand why the laws are fawked up to the richer party? You can always agree to a prenaptual agreement in the first place, if you agree to joint custody then you don't need to pay for child support, and if you picked you future wife with your head, rather than you dick, then you'll see that she may or may not be a bitch (a money loving one). You can totally see it, just stop looking at her body and listen to the way she acts, what she likes to spend her money on, and the things she says when she isn't complimenting you.
Stop blaming women or the law's. They are fine, If you want to sleep around, expect there to be consequences, just like women have them. Before men could lie, cheat, and leave. Now they are punished for such behavior. If a woman you knew started being nice to you for no apperant reason, would you think she is just trying to be friends, get your attention, or get something from you? If you answered all the above, then you'll in the right direction. Now turn it over, and imagine you're a girl, and ask yourself the same question with a guy approaching you.