Men should never marry, here's why.

[eva01beserk]

Cobretti2 said:

eva01beserk said:

Giving up on what? Marriage, then yes, a lot in here seem to do so. But given up on relationships and or intimacy? thats another question. We can have the later without having to conform to the former. like it was said before, no need to have a goverment contract for a relationship.

Thats because most guys are gutless when truth be told. They pretend to be some sort of imaginary expectation some woman have of what a man is. True be told those women should never marry and die off. Then real women will raise future woman with realistic expectations. If you set the rules up front and be yourself, chances are if the woman can put up with you, then she will stick around for the long hall.

It is when men think with their dicks and just pick the hottest thing that says yes as their life partner were things get into trouble.

Now lets move onto non married couples. Even if you don't marry and live together and have kids then 5-10years later have a relationship breakdown. The court will still most likely compensate the woman and make you pay child support. 

People are making marriage seem like a doomsday event, when in reality it isn't. 

 

 

Thouse are things I admited myself. I already said that I havent been with a women that is as economically wel off as myself and that that was the reason Im scared. and dint lie when I said it was because I wasent looking for that. Nor was I looking for comon interest, First thing I saw was looks then everything else. I know that way will probably never get me a trustworthy and economic equal. I had no one to blame but myself. But Im level headed enoughf to not think with my dick and chose not to marry thouse girls, wich is the real problem with most men as you said. When we fall in love we dont think rationally and commit to an awful person that will hurt us down the line. Somemen even marrry young and dont have the life experience to make the right choice and end having a horrible time.

The risks are way to high for thouse who even have good intentions going in, like some said before, knew their partner for a long time and they just sudenly changed, or something happend along the way to make them hold a grudge, or just being targeted by a gold digger. The law has to make something to protect thesse individuals, men and women both fall victims to theese events, It just that men get it most of the time. Its the law that has to be updated like another poster said. Its an antient ritual that has not could not keep up with the modern era we live in.

child support is nowhere near as bad as alamony. its loosing your assets by half and paying the rest of your life 50% of your peak earnings that gets you. 

And yes, living together for over 2 years makes you comon law married and has the same consequenses. Wich is why I said in a previous post that even living with a women was out of my plans.