Men should never marry, here's why.

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ArchangelMadzz said:

SonytendoAmiibo said:

 

It doesn't matter. Trust me. I lived with my last wife for years before we got married. Once she had that peice of paper she literally became a different woman. And it was not a good transformation.

Fuck, that's encouraging.. Sorry to hear man.

This is why it is very, very important to know and understand a potential partner's incentive for wanting to enter a state enforced civil contract with another. And that's whether you're a man or a woman.

In Sonytendo's case, it seems highly likely that his woman had designs and mechanations of her own that were not in his best interests that all boiled down to getting him to sign that contract. 

Men almost never change fundamentally after marriage; they keep doing what they've been doing all along. Male chameleons who put on airs, peacock, front, flash resources, etc. typically only do this in the courting phase of potential relationships. Most men don't have the resources to even do this, so they may boast about their accomplishments or abilities, etc. all of which will be exposed once a relationship is in progress. 

Women chameleons on the other hand will continue the subterfuge/act all throughout the relationship until it becomes legally binding.

So men; be aware of this. Try to use that left brain when assessing a woman and your relationship with her rather than the right. It's tough, it can be painful, but not as much as being in a situation like Sonytendo's.