I'm happily married, married when I reached 30, after living together for 2 years. I didn't believe in marriage before either, yet why not. I never saw it as obligations and rights, wasn't planning on leaving her. I moved to the other side of the world to be with her, much larger commitment in my mind than signing some piece of paper.
We didn't have an expensive wedding either, backyard wedding with family and few friends. We agreed putting money into a house was more important than some extravagant wedding. Once you meet the right person you don't have any of those doubts. I took my time though.







