FragilE^ said:
Ucouldntbemorewrong said:
Well, as an older gent, I waited a real long time for marrage and child, and now have had a child 7 1/2 year old. Ya just don't know untill you have a child how much of a love you will have for that person. I would kill for her and that's about it. Wife, Mom, Dad, Brother Sis, friend just do not compare, it's kinda crazy and hard to explain to anyone with out a child. I would have made a terrible father at 21 and probably would be doing the same thing as you. But if I had to I'm sure after having my daughter, I would never forget about that time when I was 20 for the rest of my life.
It can be done school, child, etc it's just going to be fucking a little harder.
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https://www.wired.com/2014/07/how-becoming-a-father-changes-your-brain/
http://www.todaysparent.com/blogs/on-our-minds/science-confirms-it-motherhood-changes-your-brain/
This might explain some of it :)
Its a tricky situation, regardless.
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Ya they covered this on WBUR a while back, but nice to have text ver. thx
