I'm past my 30s and I don't feel ready for a child. I don't think there's a right age for that. But when it happens, it happens. I think the best choice is to focus on the positives, hype yourself up and work hard to prepare yourself and be the best parent you can be. That's what I would do, I hope.
Also, for the little you described of her, she doesn't seem so bad. I known worse. Maybe you should try to give her a chance. Know her deeper. See what her virtues are and try to work out the problems. Communication is always key. Know that no one is perfect, and no one is 100% sane either. Everyone has their mental challenges. And conditions such as depression is something that can happen to anyone. Never say never, Life is very cruel and even the most resilient person can end up needing a talk with the psychologist eventualy.
“Simple minds have always confused great honesty with great rudeness.” - Sherlock Holmes, Elementary (2013).
"Did you guys expected some actual rational fact-based reasoning? ...you should already know I'm all about BS and fraudulence." - FunFan, VGchartz (2016)
