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I hate to be the one to say this... but i will. Abort.

You haven't said much about her, but im gonna assume that unlike you shes not chasing any further education and whatnot. So it's possible that this "child" may be the single biggest and best thing she's got to show for herself.

A lot of people get swooned away by having a child. That's the easy part. Raising it is the hard part. (I don't have kids yet but I know). Make her understand this, but if she refuses... pls try and find a way to accomplish what you have set out to do while still being there for the child.