Want to be successful? Let the hate flow through you. Science agrees!

[Cloudman]

FunFan said:

Cloudman said:
Dang, so I'm a bad guy/ doing it wrong? T_T I like being optimistic. I feel I'm able to work and focus better if I'm optimistic over pessimistic.

Umm. You appear positive on the outside, but what drives you to work hard? Are you sure there aren't negative feelings driving you? Fear of rejection for example or maybe a need to be accepted and liked. Those types of feelings are embeded deep.

Yeah, I'm not always optimistic, though I feel for me, those negative feelings kinda slow me down, like they discourage me rather than encourage, while optimism keeps me fighting.