Has anyone dated an older woman?

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Does she have kids?

I'll just level with you. If you can avoid it, avoid it. Then again no one should ever tell you how or who to love and all that.

The problem is a simple one, you are gonna just both be at very different places in your life. She will claim to be accepting of you, as you will claim to be accepting of her (love has a way of making people think they are flexible) but she's gonna expect certain things from you that you just won't even think to give. And when u give them they won't be cause you even think you should but rather cause you think that's what she wants.

In turn before long you will find yourself losing friends, losing urself and becoming more of who she wants you to be instead if whoever you should have been. You will notice that she's been there done that and most of what you may find new and exciting she would have not just done before but also have her own way of how she thinks you should do them.

Just avoid it if you can.... but if you can't, then enjoy it.