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Peh said:

OK, let me add this:

Having sex with the same gender doesn't automatically mean you are gay. You can try it if you are really curious about it and having only this one try for the rest of your life. Or you think that one try was a lot of fun, but would go only for the sex with the same gender and nothing else. Would that still be considered gay? I don't know the definition right now and obviously talking out of my ass.

Being gay means, have strong feelings towards the same gender which includes living with him/her, sharing your life with him/her and loving him/her.

Yeah, there's a big difference between the emotional and physical side of things. Definitions though, very tricky. Ultimately, if you identify as gay, you're gay. If you identify as straight, you're straight. I personally agree with everything you said though.