have you ever had sex with the same gender

[Peh]

KBG29 said:

Peh said:

That's not how it works. Either you are gay/bi or you are not.

Either you feel attracted to the same gender or you do not.

But I have to admit, that I heard that straight people were talked into gay sex, so... what do I know. Yet, I won't.

I have an extreamly hard time believing that people are this, that, or the other. In my experience people let society determine who they are, and it is really sad. Society and community can be a good thing, but they should not sway you from living.

I also think that LGBTQ will eventually grow to LBGTQS, and eventually people will just figure out that we are all human, and if you are into someone, and they are into you, then you should live, and we should all be happy. 

I think humans as a whole have a long way to go in the evolution of sex. For that reason, I have passed up a few dozen oppertunities with people that I could have been with, but I felt that they we're not mature enough, or open enough. The few people I have been with have all been in the loop, and shared the same ideas. Perhapps, I am just one of the luckiest people on the planet though. 

Anyways, I am not enticing a war or anything, I just wanted build a clearer picture of my most current understanding of sexualtiy. It is one of my favorite subjects, and I am fascinated by peoples, feelings, beliefs, and reactions to all aspects of what I feel is the most bonding activity two people can experience.

OK, let me add this:

Having sex with the same gender doesn't automatically mean you are gay. You can try it if you are really curious about it and having only this one try for the rest of your life. Or you think that one try was a lot of fun, but would go only for the sex with the same gender and nothing else. Would that still be considered gay? I don't know the definition right now and obviously talking out of my ass.

Being gay means, have strong feelings towards the same gender which includes living with him/her, sharing your life with him/her and loving him/her.