Society lets you go from an asshole to "truther" with one word

[hershel_layton]

theprof00 said:

wartaal said:
WHo cares about those laws? Nobody, they are rarily enforced. And only in the case of being drunk to the point of being unconscious or being forced to drink. And ofc children and mentally disabled(which i never even brought up).

Going by your definitions.
-Most people are rapists.
-Nearly everyone has been raped or has raped somebody.
-What you consider rape is perfectly normal to almost everyone. Actual rape victims will be very offended by trivializing actual rape in this way.
-2 people who are both tipsy/drunk are raping each other(wtf).

You are comparing rape to perfectly normal sex.

Well there is also a difference between a "rapist" and somebody who was caught in a bad situation. Based on my own experiences, I've been in those situations, and it feels really bad. I didn't mean anything. I didn't know. But I do know when someone does something they don't want to because they feel pressured. I've been in situations myself where I've been pressured to do drugs, or do something stupid, and did it.

I honestly feel like you probably haven't had sex with a lot of people. I'm not trying to downplay your argument, or make fun of you or anything. I didn't have sex until I was 18, I only had sex with 2 people until I was 27. It's been a couple dozen since then. I'm just saying, it gets complicated. Sometimes, drunk sex is fine, and sometimes it isn't. It's not rape everytime. It's just coercive sometimes. And I wouldn't call drunk or tipsy sex rape. I consider something borderline rape when someone doesn't want to do something and are kinda forced to.

It's also a wicked fine line because some girls are really into rough sex. It's just a very complicated situation. It's trying to make a law that's solely based on the word of the only people who were there. I mean, I don't even know what kind of law I'd make. I wouldn't even know where to begin. I'm just not going to act like an expert on what is and what isn't rape. Just that it happens more than you'd think.

Not surprised you had sex with that many people. (wink wink)

 

On a serious note, it's sad the girls thought you'd leave them just because they sad no to sex. I think couples who do that to their partner are pricks and are only set out to make love and that's it. Glad to see you're very supportive and understanding for your partners.