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theprof00 on 04 June 2016
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wartaal said:
theprof00 said:

It's not debunked.

Like I said, there are many people who don't report it, and yes I' have known girls who had sex while intoxicated, and are seriously fucked up because of it. Like whatever, you can have your opinion. Think whatever you want. I talk to a LOT of girls. I have a lot of friends who have opened up to me because I'm someone who doesn't judge and I have good advice. I know both men and women who have been molested and never said anything. You'd be surprised how many guys are molested as kids. You'd be REALLY surprised. It's no different with girls.

Just saying it isnt debunked is not an argument. Even the ones who made that study says it's been used out of context.

So a girl who is intoxicated while having consentual sex is seriously fucked up? How? Why? Its called regret it has nothing to do with anything. ANd what has child molestation to do with anything. Its a giant strawmen.

It's called doing things before you're ready to, because your judgement is impaired. One specific girl had sex when she was 14 the first time, and was so drunk she got passed around several guys.

Yes, it is called regret. I understand where you're coming from, but what I'm saying, as a guy who has been with a lot of women,just because it's "ok" doesn't mean she wanted it.

I've had girls tell me later that they didn't actually want to have sex sometimes but that they allowed it because they thought they would lose me. I've had two say that. It's actually more common than you'd think. Not everyone has a great sex drive. Some girls don't get any pleasure. Some can enjoy literally laying there not being touched. Seriously, I've known a girl who could just squeeze her thighs and get off without any kind of stimulation. It might seem like I'm getting off track, but I'm illustrating the broad range of how people function. I've always been upset when a girl isn't into it. A lot of girls, and I really mean a whole heck of a lot, think that they NEED to have sex in order to keep someone. Even if they don't want it.

I don't know what else to tell you. I know you disagree and you're entitled to that. I just want to make my point that rape isn't really a joke to most girls. And for a guy to be "raped" by like "a hot teacher" which does happen, some men would find that silly. Like "oh I'm sure he said no". Humans are more complicated than you're making it seem.