Is having sex with drunk people rape?

[Cobretti2]

hershel_layton said:

Cobretti2 said:
well this is a grey and stupid area

she could be saying yes yes yes but the moment she says no you gotta stop, any more ins and outs at that point is rape.

Then it gets more interesting, because her last answer is No it can also be seen as she was not able to make a decision because she was too drunk then she sobered up a little and was able to make the right decision and therefore they most likely will classify it as rape.

This is something I see often. It's typically easy to stop(i.e before starting or during foreplay), but what if you're balls deep in her/him(gender equality)? You can't just take it out so suddenly. You don't want their butthole/vagina to now suddenly be torn apart.

well obviously you meant to pull it out as whatever speed you deem appropriate, but going back in is the issue.

in reality at that point this doesn't matter as it probably turn into  person 1 said vs person 2 said scenario.