Should kids have a chance to grow up and decide what gender they are, or should parents change their sex early on?

[chakkra]

axumblade said:

chakkra said:

OK, let me see if I understand this:  So am I going to ask my 3yr old daughter if I should buy a dress or a pair of pants for her to wear?  

Or when we go into a public bathroom I'll just say:  "honey, just get into wherever you feel more comfortable"

Or I'll say to my 3 YEARS OLD child:  "Honey, we just don't know if you are a man or a woman just yet, you will get to decide that"

 

You really don't see nothing wrong in that scenario?

Wow. I'm referring to when the child goes through puberty. Not quite sure why you're jumping to conclusions about a three year old choosing bathroom..

Oh, Sorry.  Maybe is because English is not my native language but I was under the impression that a "child" was a person between birth and puberty?

If that definition is true then a three year old kid would fall into that category (Again, me not being a native speaker, I'm not 100% sure about this)