Should kids have a chance to grow up and decide what gender they are, or should parents change their sex early on?

[Shackkobe]

So how sure are you it's all biologically set at birth.
Anyway no clue what Spurge is watching, but if it is a case of ambigous genetalia, the earlier the better for the child. Well, unless they guess wrong :/

I happen to know a male with deformed genitalia who his dad, against the doctors recommendations, refused to let him be made into a girl.

He was a shy, reserved kid (didn't know why at that time)

When he hit puberty and his natural hormones took over he blossomed into a handsome confident young man. You wouldn't know he had this issue.

Thank goodness his dad was wise enough to not add a layer of additional stress to his unfortunate condition. 

Those two are good, personal friends of mine.

Food for thought.