pokoko on 31 May 2016
Without commenting on which one is right or wrong (or neither) there is one example that always makes me chuckle.
"He was at that seedy bar downtown and got stabbed. He really needs to stop hanging out with those people." -- Common sense.
"She was at that seedy bar downtown and got raped. She really needs to stop hanging out with those people." -- Victim blaming.
