So your avy will soon be a faithful representation of your actual face ?
Personally I've grown up in a family where adults didn't have scruples teaching stuff the hard way to kids and while I'd argue some of the actions of my parents I still think that moderate violence is key for education. Learning martial arts I only apply violence when I see someone else trying to phisically harm me or someone weaker thant them. I don't think sex should be considered when talking about hitting other people, of course it's more likely that a woman gets hit by a stronger man, but there's also the possibility of a strong woman hitting a weak man, in which case I wouldn't waste time thinking if it's right or not to hit a woman and I'd simply help the weak man. It's just a matter of who's the weak person and does he/she deserve to be hit.
