| obieslut said: A true marriage is between man and wife. Gays have blessings, and i think that should be enough for them.
And i dont think Gay people should be kissing in public because that would just confuse kids, i could never imagine my 4 year old niece understanding to men snogging the faces of each other.
And not everyone different from me has to stay out my way, i like pepole who are different. i just would prefere that gays dont try and have full blown convos with me. |
Talking about "True Marriage" at this point in history is kind of silly being that the definition of marriage has changed so much over the past century ...
When I was in university I took a course in sociology on marriage and the family (excellent course for meeting women) and one of the interesting discussions was about how our great grandparents saw marriage compared to our generation or our parents generation. For the most part, marriage through out history has been a far more rational process where you choose someone to be your partner in order to have children; the concept of love in this context was something that was assumed to come after you have been married for a long time. Under this definition of marriage gay marriage makes no sense but neither does heterosexual marriage without children ...
The more modern vision of marriage comes from Hollywood (for the most part) and their focus on finding true love before marriage; this definition of marriage is (essentially) what happens after you find true love and makes just as much sense for a heterosexual couple as a homosexual couple.
Personally, I am starting to see the wisdom of the first definition of marriage as I get older and see how often the initial infactuation wears off and you find yourself with a person you really don't think suits the lifestyle you want to live ...
