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spurgeonryan said:
Thank you all for your suggestions. I will wait. Her family expects at least a decent wedding and I have things to do, pay off, etc and a new job.

She can wait. :)

You really didn't give us much to go on lol. Claerly seen by the two extremes in the answers of dump her to marry her.

ie.

1. How long you been together?

2. How many kids you got, their ages, they from your relationship or a previous? basically will it fuck them up mentally

 

As I said if they are italian (well at least in AUS Italians/Greeks), you will get the free wedding and house with concerete everywhere so you can get around the saving bit. Unless they really hate your guts and wish their daughter wasn't with you.