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So she's trying to manipulate you with sex...

Something like this happened to me once. I acted shocked, as one should, because it's an obvious attempt of manipulation and really doesn't help with trust. She never did it again. We broke up 1 month after tho as she became increasingly bothered by something. She couldn't explain why but I bet it was because she had no control over me whatsoever.

IMO:

- You need to have a really good talk on trust because of how blatantly she's trying to manipulate you.
- If it doesn't work and you still want to be with her so you'll get married, then get a prenup or be potentially R.I.P (should get a prenup always anyways).
- Leave her and find someone that atleast tries to hide her manipulation attempts. Someone decent that doesn't try to manipulate you like that would be optimal.