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She's using hanky panky to get you to marry her which seems like a red flag to me. Intimacy shouldn't be used as a carrot, it should be something you both do because you love and enjoy each other.

Also, more important things than marriage like: saving for a house, sending your kids to various activities, and fixing your current house.

If you do get married, get a prenup!