My girlfriend says I don't get anymore hanky panky unless we get married

[sabvre42]

XanderXT said:

sabvre42 said:

Christians don't have arranged marriages... they date and breakup... they even divorce. We don't believe that God puts the first romantic opportunities as destiny. 

 

Sex is sex. It's masterbation using someone else's genitals. Doing it with someone you have feelings for just adds an emotional level and makes it less animalistic.

Uh, I never said that first loves are who your destined with though. And your belief doesn't really seem like something a Christian would say. I mean, don't they say that they are God's chosen people and stuff? And that Sex is good in the context of marraige because it's for making babies?

Aeolus451 said:

Christians aren't supposed to think that (in my opinion). 

Well I wouldn't know. My friend who's a Christian says that there is a woman for you in the world, because when God created you, he also created for you a partner. Or something like that.

You are referencing your beliefs of christians based on one of the more extremist ones. My sister was a member of a church that banned people from dating without chaperones. They had to "court" until they became engaged... at which point they could finally be alone.

Fuck that noise.