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Aeolus451 said:
Lawlight said:

People already miss their partner while working. You spend most of your waking hours away at work, exercising, etc. and the little time that you have together you want to completely shut them out of your life? Imagine gaming for 2 hours in the evening without interacting with your SO when you only have 3 free hours after work.

And nobody is talking about doing everything together - I know you're going to extremes and using words like clingy, attention, etc. because you're trying to prove a point.

If I only have 5 hours in a day as free time then half will go to personal time and the other half goes to SO. I cut into my sleep time for sex. Sometimes, I'll have no alone time and other times, the SO gets virtually no time from me that particular day. It's situational on what to spend time on any given day but It's far more healthy for any couples' relationship to spend quality alone time apart. 

I don't think gaming should be what you do if you want quality alone time. Go to the gym, go for a swim, go get a massage - those are literally healthy. I mean 2.5H not speaking with your SO per day when you are together. What? Essentially, you're only having breakfast, dinner/cooking and sex together? Maybe you'll change your mind once you meet your SO :)

And not a good idea to cut on your sleep time.