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I've put a lot of thought into this lately, so I already had this list worked out in my head.

  • Appearance - I'm not super picky about this, but I just need to feel physically attracted to her.  If she's too hot, I will probably feel intimidated and assume that she's out of my league.
  • Christian - For me to really consider someone as a candidate for marriage, she needs to have the same beliefs and morals as me
  • Intellect - This is more than just IQ.  This includes being intellectually stimulating--someone that is thoroughly enjoyable to talk to.  This is exceedingly rare.  I've only met one girl in my life that meets this qualification to a high degree, and I'm 36.
  • Personality - I will be drawn to a girl with the right personality, but it's hard to describe exactly why.  I tend to think of this as the part where you either "click" or you don't.  When it clicks, I will genuinely enjoy her company.  
  • Gamer - I have a hard time relating to non-gamers.  I don't typically socialize with non-gamers.  This qualification presents somewhat of a problem since female gamers seem to be in the minority.  I have met a few before, so I know they exist.
  • Non-smoker
  • Minimal or non-drinker