I'm only responding to the thread title.
Yes trophies are a time sink for obsessive completionists. For everyone else they are something to strive for for a game you really like and want to complete, but more or less ignore for a sub-excellent game.
No they are not used to sell crappy games. Only the truly obsessive must play every game crazy person would buy crappy games to amass more trophies and a butt ton of platinums. The number of these people is too low to materially increase a game's sales.
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