| Teeqoz said: Yeah, teaching your kids self control isn't the same as controlling their reactions using fear. I mean, self control isn't being controlled by your parents. That would be... well, not the opposite, but it certainly wouldn't be self control. Emphasis on self. |
It teaches them to be not lazy at least ...
So there's a postive to be had in the end when they get good working habits plus they can choose to not heed their parents possible dark foreshadowing if they want ...







