Soundwave said:
It's easier for you as a man to get into institutions of power provided you're willing to do work. Politics, economy, media are primarily controlled by men, if you want to break into those areas, no one bats an eyelash, but as a woman you likely will get tested more or have more assumptions thrown at you (ie: you're weak, not tough enough, men won't respect your authority, etc.). Men aren't "forced" to do anything, most of the things men complain about, they're not "forced" into, so complaining that a good looking girl gets into a nightclub before you do for example ... no one's exactly holding a gun to your head to go to the club. And there is considerable societal pressure on women to have children, in fact its drilled into them over and over again by family and society that they have a "ticking clock". Guys can goof around in their 20s and well into their 30s and it's just "oh guys being guys" ... but there's much more pressure on a woman to get her "shit together" relationship wise earlier IMO. I don't as a man have to worry about my body dramatically changing after we have kids either. No thanks ladies ... I'll keep my dick, you can keep your token "advantages" like being maybe one of the 5-10% of good looking women that get some benefit like being able to get out of the odd speeding ticket. There's no short cut in life, no one really gets anything for free, if you're going to sit around and whine that you can't make it life because X/Y/Z is holding you back you're never going to get anywhere, I don't care if you're a woman, man, white, black, asian, brown, whatever. |
"It's easier for you as a man to get into institutions of power provided you're willing to do work."
discrimination based on gender is against the law, but yes i concede that obviously there are situations that will slip through the cracks
the point is that we are at a point where i would say women are pretty much on an equal position to obtain these positions should they choose to.... and this is the most pertinent point "should they choose to"
"Men aren't "forced" to do anything, most of the things men complain about, they're not "forced" into, so complaining that a good looking girl gets into a nightclub before you do for example"
i agree but i didn't bring this up
"there is considerable societal pressure on women to have children"
its about the same for men... there is equal pressure on both men and women to pair bond and have children which should be obvious since the production of children requires both parties
" Guys can goof around in their 20s and well into their 30s and it's just "oh guys being guys" ... but there's much more pressure on a woman to get her "shit together" relationship wise earlier IMO. "
well i disagree maybe if we were talking about the 1950s but not in this current era
"I don't as a man have to worry about my body dramatically changing after we have kids either."
when i spoke of advantages i was reffering to social, political and economic advantages not biological advantages because those go without saying
"There's no short cut in life, no one really gets anything for free, if you're going to sit around and whine that you can't make it life "
good so maybe people should stop attempting to coddle women like children so they can legitimately show the strength they possess







