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I don't find fat as attractive myself.  It's much harder for me to respect people who don't respect themselves and that's what I see being overweight as.

One of my friends has been overweight for basically forever.  While that hasn't stopped me from being good friends with him, it's always bugged me.  So I got onto him about it and told him how to lose weight if it he really wanted to.  It wasn't some magical secret, it was just adjusting a couple of his daily habits.

It's now about 5 months later.  He has gone from about 220~230 lbs to ~180-190 lbs range.  Not only is he healthier but he's happier.  And I am too.  ^_^

People who claim that they can't lose weight or whatever are just lying to others and to themselves.