I have a better question why should we physically consider fat people attractive?
They are out of shape, will encounter health problems, often means they have weak personalities as they overeat (yes metabolism comes into it, I know as personally mine is very high so no matter what I eat I can't get fat. However the percentage where it is so slow they can't lose weight is miniscule). I would also say there is some natural wiring in humans that makes fat people less attractive, a fat person is going to be less likely to escape danger and so more likely to leave you raising a child alone. Then there are also points of if someone is very overweight sex is difficult.
Also I would argue against when people say ''Urg all guys want is anorexic girls these days'' Most guys i've ever known agree that they don't like it when the girls are super skinny. They like skinny to normal girls. Also quite a lot of guys like slightly chubby girls. The reason skinny girls are in magazines etc is simply because they are more photogenic.
Oh and Moongoddess256 if you really think that way then get help. So if you met someone you really liked but they weren't attractive you wouldn't be with them because a man wouldn't? Yes that's a great way to solve a social problem. I don't like what your doing so im going to do it as well and see how you like it. Brilliant thinking.
You seem to go on an anti male rant every other post (I've read you before claiming a problem was with ALL men rather than accepting it might be with women). Guys are visually stimulated, so yes at first they are attracted to a girls looks. However in my experience most guys aren't actually shallow. I have a friend who would only ever sleep with incredibly attractive girls, then he found a girl who is average looking however he really loved her personality and spending time with her. He is now in the only exclusive relationship he has ever been in and is really happy.
I've known other guys that are the same. Yes they can be shallow however when they find someone they really like looks aren't important. I would say girls are the same to a similar degree. Girls never go up and start talking to the ugly guy in the club, they will to the attractive guy though. However if the ugly guy starts talking to them and he is nice then its ok. So yea they are definetly the same to a degree.







