How to remove real names from PS4?

[sabvre42]

FloatingWaffles said:

sabvre42 said:
The default privacy setting makes it so they only see your RN when you or they request it.

So does everyone have their real name on top of their PSN ID on their profiles? And if so does that mean other people viewing their profiles only see their PSN ID until they request real name? 

If so I don't mind that.

I'm just confused because I think I remembered choosing "anyone can see" or something like that when the real name option popped up, but I don't remember.

Double check your privacy setting,  but they should only see it upon you two mutually agreeing to share RN