Bethesda just keeps getting away with releasing broken games and the let the fans do the fixing.

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People who can accept or ignore these performance issues can coexist with the people who don't. Don't direct your frustration on the fans, criticise the developers, call them on their short comings because that might lead to healthy discussion. Otherwise, you're intentionally opening a can of worms in an attempt to shame the people who will enjoy the game.