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ctk495 said:

Hey everyone,

I am halfway through college now and both my high school and college experience, I enjoy learning: reading textbooks, working out homework and doing research. However, if I were to give myself a grade in terms of socializing I would give myself an F. I dread the fact that going to school involves having long-term relationships with people who are part of social circles.I tend to be very blunt with people and let them know that I don't accept any form of disrespect. However, this has cause me to develop a reputation in my school. Any way, most people would transfer, however, its too late for me since I am doing really well academically and I am too deep into my major.

What really bothers me is that: Am I here to learn or to interact with these people? Also, I don't want to be their friend, since that would put me at the bottom of their hierarchical structures plus they aren't adding anything to my life. I feel happier watching movies or playing games that trying to please people who for the most part are boring. 

What do you think business is? You will interact on a daily basis with people you do not like, people who have annoying quirks, who are complete pricks, and who are incompetent.

Not a team player? You won't get many job offers.