Most people will tell you that the connections and friendships made in college end up far overshadowing the Piece of Paper in terms of importance. However it's perfectly reasonable to not want that sort of thing, especially if you're not finding the sort of people that mesh with you. I also find it hard to find friends that meet my emotional wants and that I want to give my time to. (Big introvert, right here.)
I'm not quite understanding how simply being someone's friend puts you at the bottom of anything though. Sometimes people just like to have friends because it's nice to have friends.








