The factory earbud that comes with the PS4 is quite simply inadequate. But you like quality hardware, which is why you bought the PS4. Does this headset match up?
https://youtu.be/WNY83VXLQKQ
P.S. Mods, you might notice the new thread title. This is reflecting some upcoming changes on my channel, but I can change it to something less "me" if necessary! Let me know if there's any problems, thanks!