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CosmicSex said:
UrbaaniNaali said:

I have no problem with people being gays. The problem is they should not let go marriage. Marriage is an institution made long before there was even a word gay. So people should respect that. If gays want to go "marriage", why they don't create their own institution?

Being gay is not normal, it just a mental disorder like Down syndrome. Nothing bad but still not normal. I think that people have right to be themselves, but that doesn't mean that being gay is normal.

It is harmful to an individual when they base their definition of 'normal' on the choices and perspectives of other people.  Therefore it is okay for you to consider being gay as something that isn't normal.  If that is not who you are that it would be wrong to pretend.  Likewise it is harmful to an individual who is gay to consider their preference as 'not normal'.  There is no timeless truth on what is right because it is determined by individual perspectives. Down Syndrome is NOT a funtion of perspective.  It is the result of material causility that persists outside of individual perspective. 


I said that being gay is not normal like Down syndrome is not normal. But I did not say that those are same kind of disorders. And there is a definition to normal. You shoukd ask from your doctor, is your eyesight normal, your blood pressure, weight. Same thing doctors can study brains and they've already studied. Gay is not normal.

 

ps. English is not my native language and I use iPad currently for writing so sorry about my spelling or texting errors. :)