yo guys, need some relationship advice

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tokilamockingbrd said:
I dealt with the friend that cant let go when I started dating the person who would become my wife. The main advantage I had was I caught on to what the "friend" was trying to do before she was able to destroy our relationship by doing what your GFs friend did.

Women initially will ignore the friend but over time they can wear them down and when things are not new anymore they start to listen to them.


This friend is usually the "needy" one and their only reason they have for not liking you is selfishness.

In my case I preempted it by pointing out instances where I saw my GF (at the time) was being manipulated. So when the "friend" started to do some of the things to tear us apart it actually worked in my favor because my GF recognized it and it made her distance herself from that friend.

I remember after two weeks already that she received complaints that she was having less time for her friend and that that particular day we couldn't meet spontanuous. I thought that there was nothing wrong. 

Things actually got weird when we had an argument and that friend asked my GF to loosen up her mind by going to another city, have fun together and stay over without letting me now anything. A day later I saw her and she told me the truth that she left because she felt bad. 

And her friend told me to move on and not bother anymore and because of her my GF/ex became angry. I assume her friend is always saying to not meet up because of things I only told her friends. I should have realized sooner that she was the culprit and ruining the relationship. 

I see my GF/ex Wednesday. Do you think I should approach her and tell her about that and maybe when she cools down in some weeks/months here it out hopefully from her side? (Note: I'll be moving on if things don't change soon)