| vivster said: Dude, what if I told you that a gay person could act in a way as to make people think they're straight? For example a man going with his boyfriend into restaurant while not holding hands, not kissing and not talking about how great the gay sex was they had last night. You don't have to change your personality to pretend you're someone else. I could easily pretend to be gay and people would believe me. Yes, me acting gay is the very exact same thing as me acting as if I don't hate wearing that suit. It's an act. It's very easy but still very uncomfortable. I'm not asking people to change inside but only to the outside. An act is an act is an act is an act. And yes being uncomfortable in what you are doing is universal no matter what uncomfortable thing you are doing.
And before the mod police comes for me using the g word so much I like to assure everyone that I don't give a shit about any gender or sexuality. I'm using it as an example. I could very well be talking about people who like blue hats and people who like red hats. |
Many gay people do exactly that and not just to fit in or conform but because of fear of discrimination. Your wearing of a suit, or dislike of, does not affect your other employees, you could even voice this concern to other employees and they may join the conversation, agree or laugh with you, I doubt anyone would say "I don't want to work for this company because you don't like wearing suits". Yet a person hiding their sexuality because of what other employee's opinions is a little messed up.
'g word'? You mean gay? Don't fear the word, it's part of the topic of conversation.
Hmm, pie.
