| o_O.Q said: someone doesn't have to be masculine to be secure in their masculinity though and that's my point perception is fluid to give another example anorexic people are generally dangerously underweight and yet they believe the opposite "if a man is comfortable playing colorful and child-like games, he is not insecure in his masculinity because he doesn't give a shit" true, however, he may be unjustifiably secure in his masculinity... there is another side to this that you are not considering |
What does this have to do with what I wrote? I'm not saying the opposite. In fact, I'd say the majority of gamers aren't overtly masculine. Doesn't mean they have to be insecure with who they are or what they like.
What do you mean by unjustifiably secure? Are you trying to say because he plays those games, he shouldn't feel like a man? You're making this much more complex than it needs to be. If a man feels like a man and accepts who he is, he's secure in himself.
