My name is already outdated. It used to be Vivi, but since this name is usually taken on any given website I had to change it to vivster. People usually get really creative in trying to write it, which I can't really understand. Vivister seems to be the most popular variation for people who can't read.
So now I just go by viv, which I think is a great unisex name and only the most illiterate people can get its spelling wrong.
If you demand respect or gratitude for your volunteer work, you're doing volunteering wrong.