The Romantic Advice Thread

[starcraft]

Mr Khan said:

starcraft said:

Mr Khan said:

You guys converted me . The virtue of face-to-face is immediacy of response (which drives me up a wall when i'm communicating with people remotely) and the ability to read subtext which means a lot in this sort of pursuit.

Also remembered another gift card of mine. It actually leads a logical progression: i have $15 for Starbucks and $50 for a nice local chain called Capital Grille, so it seems my path forward is clear. Simply have to ask for the former next time i see her.

The sirloin looks good, but its probably more casual if you just head in for a drink and hit up the lighter bar menu.

Casual night dates, then?

Gah, such strange rules.

I've not read every post, but it seems the problem is too many rules.

There really is such a thing as being timed out of the game. Sure there are exceptions, but generally if it drags on too long, any sort of romantic spark will become impossible.

Plus, it seems to be stressing you enormously, which is never good. I think its clear you need to have a night out that cannot possibly be construed as anything other than a date - or a situation where you're clearly broadcasting romantic intent. If it doesn't go well, that'd suck, but it would be sorted, you really would learn from what you did well, and what you didn't. And there will be other women