trashleg said:
Mr Khan said:
Edit: Math says i met her three months ago today, in which time we've had one "date," i got her number, and learned how to carry on a conversation. Still little beyond speculation that she might like me back (though she's had plenty of opportunities to shut this down. I came dangerously close to tipping my hand over Thanksgiving and trying to re-get her number...)
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She's also had plenty of opportunities to reciprocate. We don't want you doing all the leg work, all the running around after someone, when it should be equal effort on both parts, despite what NikkoM says is the appropriate response from a girl. Being elusive and dismissive might work for some girls, and it might be the case for your lady friend, however. Or maybe she is genuinely too busy to think about dating?
Question (perhaps a bit ignorant of me) : she's of Indian descent, could there be a cultural issue to her dating/flirting with guys? I know you said her upbringing is American but I know a few second-generation Indians whose family values are still being pressed upon them.
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Possibly? Or she's just not that social. Like with tonight, opting to make sure she's packed instead of showing up to the party. Sounds like something i would do if i were in her position, me being the less-social person that i am.
The elusiveness is about her being busy, i think. She's generally quite engaged when you actually get a hold of her.
One of the mods is of Indian descent, and has advised me to be cautious of her for that very reason, though he won't really explain what that entails specifically.
