The Romantic Advice Thread

[Mr Khan]

trashleg said:

NiKKoM said:

The hunting is not about you going after them.. But to make them going after you.. Yes thats confusing.. Its basicly showing sides of you till she thinks; i'm may fall in love with this guy.. I want him..  You tease.. You push a little.. Till they push back.. You create, not force, a situation where the other person can get to know you for a bit and let them decide if they want to go forward with you.. its very easy to try too hard, which scares people away (sorry trash) 

You already asked to start the dance with her.. Its up to you to give her enough encouragement to keep the dance going.. you lead but there will be the time that she starts to lead.. And you let her.. Cause then you're really dancing together..

 

Ps: Iet her lower your hand to her butt.. You never force that..

this is true. My ex told me that I was the first girl he dated who didn't routinely reject him, or make him work so hard. This was confusing to me, because I thought "so I was the first girl to actually like you as much as you like me, which in your head means I like you too much, which means I'm doing it wrong by not being a bitch?"

Guys complain about how being nice gets you nowhere. Well, being a girl with mutual interest in a guy seems to get you backwards. 

Khan, is your cat okay?

Quite. He just had an infection, vet cleared it up (hopefully).