The Romantic Advice Thread

[Mr Khan]

NiKKoM said:

Mr Khan said:
Okay, so she has a second chance to reject my request for her number now...

Aside from that, it went pretty well. Natural conversation, some school related, some personal histories (mostly foreign travel related). It ran pretty naturally and the time went by quick. She toyed idly with her coffee later on, not sure if that was a sign of boredom or of interest. Eye contact was decent.

Now i just have to get that number, goddamnit!

Yeah.. she probably noticed: "hmmm this guy asked me for coffee but he doesn't drink it... hmmm"... But its a sign of being anxious, some toy with her hair others toy with the stuff they have in their hand.. if she wanted to leave she would already left.. Anyway.. Wasn't this whole deal about to find out if you like her?  if i asked you what coffee she liked and if she had any milk and/or sugar in it and you know the answer.. you are probably liking her..

But what in the world are you gonna do with the number? You probably didn't say: "this was fun we should do this again soon"  or
found a crazy art expo you two could go.. like i told you.. Please don't bomb her with lame, scary, greedy, desperate text messages..
or send semi nude pictures of yourself to her..

I simply asked so we could coordinate "again some time." That was all, really.

She had the Caramel latte, i believe. I had the Cocoa Mocha, drank it, enjoyed it, so i know i can do coffee in the future.

Edit: in terms of liking her, i can at least carry on a good conversation with her. Next i just need to get an idea of what she likes to *do*.