The Romantic Advice Thread

[Mr Khan]

axumblade said:

NiKKoM said:

Mr Kahn is probably gonna show up 10 minutes too early... Which will presure her.. We have to remember its not a date.. its a casual coffee drink..  coming at 2:03~2:05 and saying: "sorry the dean hold me back a few minutes,I wanted to text you but then I realised I don't have your number" is perfectly fine.. and he gets the number.. or do you really think he has the balls to ask her directly for her number?

You and I just have different mentalities I suppose. I'd show up 10 minutes too early too but I'd wait to order and if the guy I was meeting with asked if I'd been there long, I'd just say "I just got here too."  

I'd like to think that since he seems to be gaining some confidence while she's around that he might feel better about it. Normally, I go about this the opposite way too, where I get a number first and if things start working out, I add them on facebook. 

The phone thing is separate from any romantic anxieties on my part. I just don't use my phone a lot, that's been a habit from the first time i got a "real" cell phone.