The Romantic Advice Thread

[Mr Khan]

trashleg said:

NiKKoM said:

1 waffle, unlimited coffee.. Would you date someone who at your first time 1 on 1 eats two waffles or more? Then they suspect you are there just for the waffles and not for them... And how would you talk to her when you have waffles in your mouth? 

Um.... I would totally eat 2 waffles on a first waffle/coffee date. Does that make me undateable? >__<

 

Khan, it's great that she mentioned the coffee. Now it's important that you don't act too keen. Cos even if she's starting to like you a wee bit, being over-eager will make her think you're thinking far too much about where it could go (and, in my experience, that's always seemed really shallow from a guy who didn't even know me very well.. how can he be so keen if he doesn't even know me?!) 

Not to make you panic or anything. But just. Relax. Don't try to be something you aren't. 

(And also. If you're both so busy, if this works out for you this relationship is gonna take like 50 years to get down the aisle).

Heh, i'm trying not to think too hard on the last part. The whole venture here is about seeing how far i can throw this, and doing it like a normal person would. Odds are on this will fail for one reason or another, same as any relationship, but that doesn't concern me. I have coffee with a girl on wednesday, that is all.