| NiKKoM said: And it should have been: "lets grab a coffee afterwards" way less informal and a statement instead of that "Maybe afterwards we could get a coffee together?" who talks that way in real life.. |
I should have just left out the question mark. Then it becomes a statement and not an ask. I'm kind of hoping she interpreted it that way and that's why she hasn't responded, but it doesn't sound that abnormal to me. "Maybe after this we can grab some chipotle?" would be a perfectly natural thing to say. Plus i tend to write much more formally than i talk, including in fb chat (or mod chat, as my fellows know).
At the end of the day, it boils down to whether she has mutual interest, which is not a factor i can influence too much (well, i could kill interest by being creepy, but i don't think i've done that yet). If it's not there, it's not there, and whatever format i try to solicit interest in doesn't really matter.
Monster Hunter: pissing me off since 2010.
