| NiKKoM said: Alright.. I just giving you a heads up, not trying to pressure you.. But all these casual chit chat with her will lead you to the friendzone.. There will be a point in time when she will think: "he's nice but i don't know if he's interested in me.. We talked a few times but thats it" at some point you'll have to make the coffee thing happen. Cause it shows interest in her. What the next step beyond that is doesn't matter right now. The more you two talk without you pushing for the coffee, aka doing something with just the two of you, the more she will think your not interested in her as a potential lover but as a friend.. And you are actually right at the frontdoor with that cause she has agreed to it already.. Just ring again so she opens the door.. The pain of being in love with someone you know well while she just sees you as a friend is more painfull then a rejection with someone you have an attraction to.. ( now is the time for trashleg to come in and comfort me for a while) |
I'm out. I'm so out. I got dumped on Thursday. After 8 months of sitting on the fence, the guy decided he's not ready to treat me right.
Mr Khan, restore balance to the world and secure yourself a date at least! If you don't, the ghost that is my love life shall haunt you forever. I swear it.
