The Romantic Advice Thread

[Mr Khan]

NiKKoM said:
Yes.. Someone will probably use your posts to get a Restraining order someday.. Anyway so you had a few minutes chat? Good.. But let me guess.. It was about school? Anyway till the coffee thing happens you'll probably will talk to her more often.. Next time try to find something other to talk about: a festival/exhibition that is happening in town, a concert, maybe she's holding a novel and you "read" it too (its a tiny lie, just get a summary from the net).. Some crazy viral vdeo on the net. Keep it light but show interest in her words.. Don't just nod yes (thats for later in long term relationships) respond with a question.. End with: "i would love to learn more about it" or "thats amazing you know so much about it" ...make her feel good about the conversation.

Thats the tiny step to make a difference.. Remember not only do you wanna know her mind but she s gonna want to know yours.. Its a dance with two not just one..

There's a costume party coming up on the 1st that i'm gunning for. Perhaps too soon to go "with" her, but perhaps convince her to attend if she had not considered it, ask her what sort of costume she would favor (in a non-pervy way, yes).

It's Halloween, there's plenty going on at the moment.