The Romantic Advice Thread

[Mr Khan]

NiKKoM said:

haxxiy said:

You remind me of myself a few years ago. I learned the only safe way to let go of my anxiety actually and move forward on personal relationships was being a cheapass and outright showcasing interest and flirting right off the bat with a LOT of girls. A lot of girls will appreciate the attitude if you manage not to pass as a weirdo. You can leave the friendly talk for later if she responds on a positive fashion.

yeah about that.. Just don't do that with the same class/group/hangout.. Otherwise you'll get a stamp of being that a-hole who tried to get in the pants of every girl in the class.. Once my teacher said "damn NiKKoM its like you're crossing of a list.." and you'll end up getting a letter, yes an actual letter, from one if the girls about how much of an a-hole you are and she's sick of me pulling on strings of different girls whenever I wanted to, not caring about the feelings of the others, so she wanted to end our friendship or whatever relationship we were having and she was empowered not to be one of the girls anymore who was stringed by me..

Now i was young back then so naturally I charmed my way back in.. Which was absolutly a horrible thing for me to do.. I wonder if she ok nowadays..

lol

But that's why i'm trying to play this cool, it's not that large of a graduate school (only about 500 students, so smaller than even the small high school i went to. It's embedded in a huge, huge university, but the program itself is small)